Accept individual habits, prioritize clear communication

To have a happy marriage, you must accept two important facts. First, individual habits can differ, and that is perfectly fine. Second, clear communication is essential for a healthy relationship. In many marriages, partners have interests that may not align. For example, one partner might enjoy playing video games, while the other does not. Instead of feeling frustrated, it is better to recognize that these hobbies can contribute to personal happiness. If you do not enjoy their pastime, find something that makes you happy while they play. The idea that both partners need to be together at all times for a successful marriage is not true. Studies show that individual leisure time helps improve marital satisfaction. It is healthy to nurture your own interests, just as your partner does. The second fact to accept is that partners cannot read each other's minds. For example, if you expect your spouse to help carry grocery bags without telling them you need help, you might end up feeling upset. Clear communication is crucial. Always express your needs directly, as assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. In summary, embrace your partner’s individuality and communicate openly. This approach creates a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.