Boys need positive mentors for healthier masculinity

Boys today face many challenges, according to Sir Gareth Southgate. He believes they are misled by influencers who promote a narrow view of masculinity based on dominance and material wealth. Instead, boys need positive role models to guide them through their struggles. Many boys feel lonely and disconnected. They are searching for acceptance and belonging. Workshops held in schools show that Gen Z boys worry about their appearance and how friends perceive them. Many are anxious about attracting girls and often rely on harmful stereotypes about women. Boys need support to develop emotional intelligence, understand media influences, and build healthy relationships. This requires time and trust. Adults, such as teachers and parents, must learn how to provide this support. Boys are not lost causes; they are still growing and need guidance. Several letters highlight the importance of having mentors for young men. They emphasize that success should not be just about wealth or control over others. It should involve kindness, respect, and personal growth. Mentors should listen and model the right values. There is also a call for community support to help boys transition into manhood. Initiatives like The ManKind Project work to promote positive masculinity. Engaging more men in these efforts can help provide the guidance that boys need.