Charity Lawson prioritizes privacy in relationship with Dotun

Charity Lawson, a former contestant on "The Bachelor" and current fiancée of Dotun Olubeko, is pushing back against the pressure to share every detail of their relationship. At a recent awards event, Charity expressed that the expectations from fans can sometimes be unreasonable. She and Dotun want to maintain their privacy and focus on their real lives. Charity appreciates the support from fans but wants to remind them that they are not just characters on a TV show. They are real people navigating their lives and planning their wedding, which involves significant responsibilities and decisions. The couple has decided to work on their timeline instead of rushing to meet public expectations. She admitted that their wedding planning has been overwhelming. Charity mentioned feeling regret over her choice of words when she said they were putting things on "pause." They are taking their time to make decisions that are important to them. The couple got engaged during Charity's season of "The Bachelorette." They are planning two weddings and have not yet shared details or a date. Charity highlighted that both she and Dotun value meaningful experiences over material ones in their relationship. Dotun praised Charity's warm energy and the positive impact she has on those around her. As they prepare for their future together, he emphasized the importance of quality time and focusing on themselves this year.