Chinese women increasingly prefer virtual relationships over real ones

Many young women in China are finding love in a mobile game called "Love and Deepspace." Launched in January 2024, the game combines monster-hunting action with romantic storylines set in a futuristic world. Developed by Papergames, it has quickly gained popularity, earning over $500 million since its release. The game allows players to form relationships with virtual characters. One favorite is Rafayel, who has inspired loyal fans to throw elaborate birthday parties in his honor. These events include renting mall spaces and decorating high-speed trains, despite Rafayel being a fictional character. For players like Liu Xue, 25, these virtual relationships provide emotional support. Liu reports feeling a strong connection to Rafayel, seeing him as a loving partner. She stated, "It's like emotional sustenance." While the game is free to download, many players spend money on in-game purchases for extra features and interactions. Wang Yaya, a 23-year-old university student, has spent around $10,000 on the game. She believes this spending reflects a need for emotional support that she and many friends lacked in childhood. Some players find virtual romances more appealing than dating in real life. Liu, for example, says she has lost interest in real men since discovering the game. Players also gather to celebrate their favorite characters, sharing homemade merchandise and taking pictures together. Many appreciate the comfort and love they feel from virtual partners, as another player noted, "It fulfills our fantasy of being in a relationship." Overall, the game provides emotional value that resonates deeply with its audience.