Dear Abby advises on relationship uncertainty and family dynamics

A woman is uncertain about her relationship with her son's father, Tony, who does not want a romantic commitment due to personal issues. Despite their recent closeness, she feels confused by his mixed signals and has set boundaries regarding intimacy. Tony has expressed that he only wants a friendly relationship, which leaves the woman questioning whether to move on. She has wisely decided against intimacy without a commitment, recognizing that their goals do not align. In another letter, a couple seeks to improve their strained relationship with their daughter, Willa, who has distanced herself since dating a boyfriend they disapprove of. They acknowledge their past strictness and suggest that family therapy might help rebuild their connection.