Dear Abby advises woman to move on from relationship with uncommitted partner
A woman reflects on her relationship with her son's father, Tony, who has expressed he does not want a romantic commitment due to personal issues. They have been on and off for years, but she feels confused by his mixed signals. Tony, a former Marine, is focusing on his anger issues and prefers a friendly relationship. The woman has set boundaries, deciding not to engage in intimacy without a commitment, which Tony does not seem ready to provide. She concludes that since their relationship goals do not align, it may be best to move on. Dear Abby advises against planning a future with Tony, as he is not currently interested in a deeper relationship.