Marathon proposal sparks TikTok debate over priorities

A marathon runner has stirred up discussion on TikTok after sharing a video of her fiancé proposing to her at the finish line. The footage, which has gained popularity, shows her partner getting down on one knee right after she completed her five-hour run. The post was made in early March 2025. While many enjoyed the moment, some TikTok users criticized the proposal, calling it “selfish.” They felt that the fiancé had overshadowed her achievement by choosing that moment for the proposal. Comments from users highlighted a belief that he "stole her moment," suggesting that the proposal could have waited. Despite the backlash, Sarah John defended her fiancé. She stated that the proposal was the "perfect" choice for her and that she loved the moment. Many commenters supported her view, arguing that she was happy and it was indeed special for her. Sarah responded to the comments by saying that those criticizing the proposal clearly did not know her or her relationship. She emphasized that her fiancé understands her well and that the proposal made her feel overjoyed. The incident reflects a trend of marriage proposals going viral on TikTok, highlighting differing opinions on the right timing for such important moments.