Misogynistic beliefs hinder healthy dating dynamics

Many people find dating to be challenging, and it's a common misconception that women are the reason for this difficulty. The discussion on misogyny and its potential harm is becoming more significant. Recent comments from public figures like Gareth Southgate have highlighted the pressures young men face today. A theory called the "80/20 Rule" suggests that most women are only interested in a small percentage of men, leading some young men to blame women for their romantic struggles. This blame can often lead to dangerous ideologies, where men feel entitled to women and might resort to violence when they feel rejected. Historically, women had fewer rights and often married for security rather than love. Today, many women see themselves as equals rather than prizes. This change has caused some men to feel threatened. Instead of confronting these feelings, some men retreat into negative online communities. Rejection is tough for everyone, but the way men process these feelings can be harmful. Women often talk to friends or engage in hobbies instead of expressing anger violently. The author notes that men should work on becoming better partners instead of complaining online. Negative behaviors in dating, like assuming a woman’s affection means commitment or reacting poorly to income differences, create a climate of fear. The author believes that the root problem is not entertainment like video games or pornography but rather a lack of positive support systems for young men. In recent years, more women have chosen to remain single, showing that women can find happiness outside of traditional relationships. Both men and women can suffer under societal pressures, and while men are encouraged to seek help, it's not women’s job to solve these issues for them. Men must take the initiative to improve themselves and their dating lives.