Parents in New Mexico seek to mend strained relationship with daughter over past strictness and boyfriend disapproval
A couple in New Mexico is struggling with their relationship with their daughter, Willa. They admit to being hard on her while growing up, which may have led to her distancing herself. Although they are proud of her accomplishments, they see her only on special occasions. Willa's boyfriend, whom the parents disapprove of, has also affected their relationship. The family attended therapy, but Willa stopped participating when her boyfriend became involved. The parents are seeking advice on how to improve their connection with her. In a separate letter, a woman reflects on her complicated relationship with her ex-partner, Tony. He is focused on addressing his anger issues and does not want a romantic relationship at this time. She is considering moving on due to their differing relationship goals.