Parents must educate themselves on online dangers

A psychiatrist has shared ideas to help parents keep their teenage sons safe from harmful online content. Dr. Max Pemberton highlighted the dangers of a "dark online world" that many young boys may be facing today. He discussed a new Netflix series called "Adolescence," which shows the story of a boy arrested for murder. The show reflects real issues like knife crime and the influence of certain online communities that can negatively impact young men. Many boys are drawn to "incel" culture, which is filled with resentment towards women. In this community, some believe they are entitled to relationships and even support violence against women. Dr. Pemberton explained that young men receive mixed messages about women, being told to respect them while also seeing harmful content online. To combat this, he urged parents to educate themselves about these online influences. Encouraging open conversations with sons helps them think critically about what they see. Parents should discuss topics like sex in terms of equality and consent instead of letting harmful online figures be the source of that education. He suggested that single mothers should help their sons connect with positive male role models, such as relatives or family friends. Dr. Pemberton also recommended having family meals without phones to build social skills and to spot any issues that may arise. He strongly advised limiting internet access for boys. Children should not have computers in their bedrooms, and social media should be off-limits until they are 16. Dr. Pemberton emphasized that parents must set boundaries, reminding them that their role is to guide, not to befriend their children.