Reader prefers solitude, dislikes hosting guests

A person named Introvert from Tennessee has shared their feelings about not wanting guests in their home. They describe their house as a safe place where they feel comfortable and at ease. Outside energy makes them feel drained. This includes family and friends, who often do not understand this preference. Introvert has anxiety and is dealing with past trauma, which influences their need for solitude. They prefer to meet others in public places or visit them instead. However, their family believes they should have the right to visit whenever they want. Dear Abby responded by advising Introvert to stand firm in their feelings. She suggested that they communicate clearly about their preferences without feeling pressured to explain themselves further. She emphasized that their feelings should be respected.