Struggling with sensitivity to criticism and jokes

A reader struggles with taking things personally, feeling hurt by jokes or minor criticism. They seek advice on becoming more easygoing and confident. The response suggests focusing on positive qualities and working on one improvement at a time. Another reader is in a long-distance relationship with a 40-year-old man, while facing disapproval from friends and family. They express concern about their loved ones' perceptions and seek guidance on navigating the situation. The advice encourages open communication and meeting in person before making significant decisions.