Tennessee resident seeks advice on avoiding home visits

A woman wrote to a advice columnist, expressing her discomfort with having visitors in her home. She feels that her home is her safe space, and the energy from the outside world can overwhelm her. This includes visitors like family, friends, and neighbors. The woman has anxiety and unresolved trauma, which make hosting difficult for her. While she prefers not to have guests over, she is open to meeting in public places or visiting others. Her family does not understand her feelings and believes they have a right to enter her home simply because they are family. In response, the advice columnist suggested that she clearly communicate her feelings. She advised the woman to simply explain her preference without feeling pressured to justify it. Everyone’s feelings should be respected, and it's okay to set boundaries about personal space.