Travis Finlayson finds healing through group therapy support
Travis Finlayson was a healthy and active teenager before his life changed forever due to abuse. In December 2015, he faced his abuser, Arthur Eaton, in a Melbourne court. Finlayson hoped to see justice served and inspire other survivors to speak out. However, the outcome was disappointing. The judge suspended Eaton's 26-month sentence due to his health issues, leaving Finlayson feeling frustrated and unsupported. Eaton was a well-known teacher who abused several boys during his career. He was convicted in 1996 but moved between schools despite previous complaints against him. The Victorian Education Department has faced scrutiny for its handling of allegations against Eaton and other abusive teachers. This year, a $48 million inquiry will examine these historical abuses. Finlayson, who is considering legal action against the Education Department, feels they are partly responsible for exposing him to potential harm. Since the court case, Finlayson's life has been challenging. He has struggled with mental health issues, relationship problems, and feelings of shame. In 2017, after a suicide attempt, he sought help from the South Eastern Centre Against Sexual Assault (SECASA), which assisted him during his legal battle against Eaton. While individual counseling was helpful, Finlayson found the real support he needed in group therapy. Finlayson participated in an eight-week group therapy program at CASA House in Melbourne. He appreciated being with other survivors, which lessened his feelings of isolation. This group model allowed participants to share their experiences and support one another. For Finlayson, connecting with others who shared similar backgrounds has been invaluable. As a firm believer in the importance of finding the right healing approach, Finlayson encourages other survivors to explore various options. He emphasizes that every survivor's journey is unique and that there are many paths to healing. Finlayson now looks forward to staying connected with those he met in group therapy, grateful for the friendships he has formed.