Woman seeks clarity on relationship with son's father who prefers friendship over romance
A woman is uncertain about her relationship with her son's father, Tony, who does not want a romantic relationship due to personal issues. They have a history of on-and-off dating but have recently grown closer. Tony has expressed that he is focusing on his anger issues and does not want a commitment. The woman feels confused by his mixed signals and has set boundaries, including no sex without a relationship. Dear Abby advises her to recognize that Tony is not interested in more than friendship. She suggests that the woman should not wait for a future with him, as it may lead to disappointment.