Women seek greater pleasure post-menopause, expert says

Pamela Madsen, a somatic sex educator, emphasizes that women experience heightened sexual desire after menopause. She argues that menopause should be seen as a new beginning rather than an end to sexuality. Many discussions about menopause suggest that women's sexual interest declines, but Madsen believes that this is a misconception. She describes menopause as a "second adolescence," where women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s undergo significant hormonal changes. These changes can be uncomfortable at first, but they can also lead to increased sexual satisfaction with the right support. Madsen points out that hormone replacement therapy, such as estrogen and testosterone, can help women regain their sexual energy. She says that many women feel "starving" for emotional and physical connection after their experiences with inadequate partners. Her retreats, called Back to the Body, focus on helping women reconnect with their sexual selves. She notes that women often enter her program feeling neglected and needing to discover their desires. Madsen argues that the notion of menopause ending women's erotic lives is false. In fact, many older women are finding successful relationships with younger men, who can match their increasing sexual appetite. Additionally, Madsen highlights that women in menopause often seek companionship rather than financial support. They want partners who can share experiences and explore new adventures. She believes that women in their 40s to 70s are feeling empowered and attractive, embracing their sexual freedom and vitality.